Dude, I don't want to come down on you, but it's true, if you want to ride, you'll find a way, if not, then it's not meant to be. I moved to Vancouver from Montreal a little over a year ago. I knew nobody when I got here except for the bike I brought and the bag on my back. I knew I wanted to ride, so I went to Fromme and hiked up. Before I even got to the first trailhead, I had already met someone to ride with that day with. By the end of the summer I had met countless riders and my phone was ringing every weekend from people asking if I wanted to ride with their group. So, like I said, if you want to ride, the rest will happen. Don't start from the end and move backwards, start with the bike and the will to ride.